I think you need to talk with Elle really clearly about what are her goals. Get that really clear and then it doesn’t have to be ” don’t spend so much on your Clint Capela Portrait WHT shirt cause it shows your not invested in what I’ve taught you” and it can be ” Elle the goal is this which means this spending is not compatible” and give it a little bit of time but if she continuously falls back then remove yourself. None of this has to be harsh or about feelings. You are there to help with the goal, continued overspending is the opposite and if that’s what she chooses then she doesn’t need your help with the goal?
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